Ways To Feel More Confident In Love

Ways To Feel More Confident In Love

Okay, so the idea of approaching someone for a date absolutely terrifies you. Or, maybe you're so nervous about revealing too much about yourself that you can't get past anything other than, "Do you come here often?" If this rings true, then it's time to conquer that inner voice inside of you and become the dating guru you know you were meant to be. First, you need to realize that you're not alone. Your fears are the same fears just about everyone else in the room also has. One person may be worrying about their weight, the other about their height. Everyone has his or her insecurities. Once you truly realize this, the playing field becomes much easier to approach. The next time you're out in a public situation, try to figure out each person's hidden insecurity. If you watch closely you'll begin to read more about people than just their insecurities. You're more in control of how people view you than you think. Take a good look in the mirror. What do you see? How is your posture? Your smile? Your clothing? Could you use a mini-makeover? Taking time for personal enhancement is a very self-rewarding gesture. I'm sure you've heard the saying, "If you look good, you feel good." Guess what? It's true! Make it a point to consciously think about the way you are standing, if you are smiling and the effort you've put into your appearance. Pretty soon it will become natural way of thinking. Actions can drown out your nagging voice of self-doubt. When was the last time you did something that terrified you? Shake things up a bit. Try something new at least once a week. The more you're able to successfully navigate the world around you the more your self-confidence will increase. In addition, if you're busy doing things and being a part of the world around you'll have less time to worry about self-doubt. Are you prepared? You can quickly lose self-confidence and end up trying to anticipate defensive maneuvers by being caught unprepared for certain situations. Be on the offense instead. Lose that nagging voice inside and go ahead and try your hand at small talk. It may feel very uncomfortable at first, but hey, riding a bike the first time wasn't a piece of cake either!

What Women Really Want

An inside look at the feminine side of things...

Over the past few years we have all seen news and magazine reports on what women really want in a man. We have had stereotypes created and thrown at us from all directions and they always seem to change, depending on what station you watch or what newspaper/magazine you read. In the 80's we had the Yuppie, a man driven by material wealth and the pursuit of acquisition and social status that had women swooning all over the place. The 90's saw the advent of "new man" - the strong, sensitive type that would think nothing of helping out with the dishes, doing the laundry or changing diapers. With all these schools of thought offering different opinions on what the current ideal male should be, I decided to turn to do a little research on the subject and come up with my own conclusions. The ideal man is actual a variant of the 80's male in that he is still has a take charge, strong personality but he has also met his match - the woman. Now, in order to fully understand what the ideal man should be, one really has to understand women. A woman is no longer, and hasn't been for quite some time, the weaker sex. She just likes to be looked after and romanced. She likes to be swept of her feet just as much as she likes to be in control and she wants a man that has the ability to allow both sides of her character to flourish, without being a wimp. He can be kind and sensitive, but he can never be a victim. Masculinity is a huge turn on for women. That does not mean that he has to have the body of Hercules, but he must be someone she can proudly show off to her friends and associates. While he does not have to be wealthy or have a great job, he does need to offer security for the woman. He needs to be strong in his convictions, well spoken and have personal goals. In other words, he must have dreams and have the ability to achieve them. If things don't go his way, he gets on with life rather than feels sorry for himself. He also has to be an excellent lover, husband and father. Now what this actually means in real life varies with each woman, but the basics are pretty much as described above. Today's man is actually closer to the classical John Wayne type hero than anything else, in that he is strong and full of character and willing to take charge, but more importantly, he needs to offer security to the woman in his life. I guess what I am really trying to say here is that, guys, it is not really as hard as you have been led to believe. You can be a woman's Prince Charming, just be self-confident, articulate and believe in yourself!

Love Tips For Boys

The following are the tips for boys to love some girl:
Make a cassette tape of your and her favorite love songs, then record (in your voice) a special, romantic message at the end!
Write her a Love poem.
Leave little notes around telling her things you love about her.
Let her rest her head in your lap.
If she's feeling stressed out, give her a massage and help her work out a better way to do things.
Surprise him with a candle-lit dinner.
Let her wear your clothes. It's almost guaranteed she'll look better in one of your button down shirts than you do. (Kind of sexy too!)
If she makes dinner, offer to do the dishes.
Always be a gentleman--hold the door for her.
Give her the same respect you enjoy from her.
Make an effort to get to know (and if you can, love) her family.

When To Say I Love You

The climax of just about every love story is that key moment when the object of affection looks longingly into the other’s eyes; their heart pounds so fast that it sends paralyzing jolts of euphoria throughout the body, and then they say those three little magic words… I love you. This scenario is maybe what we see in the movies, but it is also how we imagine it happening in real life. And, quite frankly how it really should be. Anything else is nothing short of a disappointment. So, how can you ensure that your first “I love yous” will play out like the scene you’ve always envisioned? Read on. One of the most important things to know about saying I love you is that, from the receiver’s point of view, having someone tell you that they love you when the feelings aren’t reciprocated is a horrible feeling. All of a sudden, feelings of fear and a sense of obligation emerge. With this in mind, take the following advice to heart if you are the one saying the first, “I love you.” Even though being honest to yourself and others is of utmost importance, taking your partner’s feelings into consideration is an equally necessary component. We often tell ourselves we are experiencing true love when we feel lust, excitement and connection. In my opinion, time is the only sure way to decipher the true nature of your emotions. It can often seem like we have a built in compulsion to fall or be in love. Sometimes I feel like I could, and do, fall in love every other week. For example, my latest love affair began with a long phone call and then four dates in one week. We both fell so hard for each other, that one day (during the second week), the words just slipped out of my mouth. He was so happy, he picked me up and twirled me around saying, “I love you too. I love you too.” The following month, we were on fire. Predictably, the month after was a little different. After spending every day together for a month, we got to know each other pretty well and there wasn’t anything left to talk about. Our dreams for the future were vastly different and as for our ideas of intellectually stimulating conversation, well…there weren’t any. This left me in the predicament of forced “I love yous.” I found out that this wasn’t the kind of love that means, “I don’t ever want to imagine a day without kissing you and I’d do anything to ensure that I don’t.” You see, most people hear those words when you’re telling them that you love them. It’s what they want to hear, so they do. Hearing those words when you don’t reciprocate the feeling SUCKS! If you aren’t sure that what you're feeling is mutual or immutable, wait. It’s worth it. Hold your tongue until you’re sure to have a “movie moment.” The more anticipation you can build up, the better your moment. Pushing for this key moment will only cheapen it. Imagine yourself marrying this person and then, ten years down the road, you’re reminiscing. “Oh, honey, do you remember the first time I said ‘I love you’?” How do you want that memory to be? I think some people treat the words so casually, that they forget soon after, but there are some who will forever keep the memory because they prevented prematurely saying, “I love you.”

Love is that first feeling

"Love is that first feeling you feel before all the bad stuff gets in the way." "When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn't bend over and paint her toenails anymore. So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too. That's love." "When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different. You know that your name is safe in their mouth." "Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on shaving cologne and they go out and smell each other." "Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your French fries without making them give you any of theirs." "Love is when someone hurts you. And you get so mad but you don't yell at them because you know it would hurt their feelings." "Love is what makes you smile when you're tired." "Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him to make sure the taste is OK." "Love is when you kiss all the time. Then when you get tired of kissing, you still want to be together and you talk more. My Mommy and Daddy are like that. They look gross when they kiss." "Love is what's in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen." "If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you hate." "Love is hugging. Love is kissing. Love is saying no." "When you tell someone something bad about yourself and you're scared they won't love you anymore. But then you get surprised because not only do they still love you, they love you even more." "There are two kinds of love: Our love and God's love. But God makes both kinds of them." "Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it everyday." "Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know each other so well." "During my piano recital, I was on a stage and scared. I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling. He was the only one doing that. I wasn't scared anymore." "My mommy loves me more than anybody. You don't see anyone else kissing me to sleep at night." "Love is when mommy gives daddy the best piece of chicken." "Love is when mommy sees daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is handsomer than Robert Redford." "Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day." "I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones." "I let my big sister pick on me because my Mom says she only picks on me because she loves me. So I pick on my baby sister because I love her." "Love cards like Valentine's cards say stuff on them that we'd like to say ourselves, but we wouldn't be caught dead saying." "When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you." "Love is when mommy sees daddy on the toilet and she doesn't think it's gross." "You really shouldn't say 'I love you' unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget." What Loves Means To Me Birds fly free, why can't I? You say you love me, but are these words you speak true? My life is such a mess. I wonder what I should do. There is no one left but you to put all of my trust into. But, what if I do put my trust in you? As I sit here piercing through steal plates that cover the windows, trying to see through the thin cover of paint, only to see you in my mind. But when I open my eyes, you are not there. You don't pass through my thoughts, you stay there and keep me sane. The thoughts of losing you makes my mind wonder if I'll eve
L,,,,,, loss of heart
O,,,,, ocean of tears
V,,,,,violence of laws
E,,,,, end of life
ithink there is no need to define love more however if you wanna find out where love exist so love is in relation love is in friendship love is in nature love is in hard work love is in wife love is in smile love is in success love is in mother
"" when ever you see love is coming welcome it and let it enterned in your heart when some one asked from you ,,,,, Love is in everything, but most people (well some) don't see that it exists in EVERYTHING, like God, Religions, etc. We all want love/lover because we want someone who can truly understand us, and appreciate us. Because everyone want's that one person who can make you believe ANYTHING is possible. And let's face it, there isn't too much love going around the world, like the War in Iraq, I personally don't understand why inncocent people are being killed, like where is the love? We, everyone want's someone who can truly and deeply love us and not look at all our flaws. Without love, the world would be so empty, everyone would be mean to each other and discriminate (some of that still happens, but it would be hundred times worse.) That's why all races depend on love, we basically cannot live a happy life without this, its a major component in life.
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You are here in this world just coz of Love. A dog cuddling its puppies on street or may be your parents buying you a computer and wishing for your success in every step you take. You dressing your best for a date or a hangout, is self love. You love yourself and want to look your best. Love exists everywhere :)
LOVE IS ALWAYS IN D HEART OF A PERSON WHO LOVES US OR WHOM V LOVE . N LOVE MEANS FRIENDSHIP WITH UNDERSTANDING . IF U LOVE A HER/HIM N EVEN HE/SHE LOVES U ,THEN ASK TROUGH UR FRIEND N GO N TELL HER IF UR IMPATIENT ELSE WAIT TILL SHE TELLS U . IF U WANT HER /HIM 4 LIFETME THEN GO 4 IT BUDDY ! IF U WANT MY HELP THEN MAIL ME
Nag means horse, nag means bother, Lid means top, and lid means hat,
Pop means noise, and pop means father, But love means love and you can't change that. (Fall means flop, and fall means season,) (Stout means ale, and stout means fat,) (Cold means sneeze and cold means freezing,) (But love means love, and you can't change that.) Love means love and I love you. I mean what I say, and I say what I mean to say, Love means love and I love you, Say you love me too. Hey, Honeylove step right here and say something real clever for the people. (Night means dark, and knight means armor,) (Dish means plate, and dish means chat.) (Chick means bird, and chic means charmer,) (But love means love, and you can't change that.) Cuff means hem, and cuff means credit, Board means eat, and board means flat, Spoke means wheel, and spoke means said it, But love means love and you can't change that. (Love means love and I love you,) (I mean what I say and I say what I mean to say,) (Love means love and I love you,) (Say you love me too.) Well, here we go again. Kid means goat, (yes, and kid means baby,) Stroke means row, (and stroke means pat,) No means no, (or yes or maybe) But love means love and you can't change that. (baw, baw badu badu) (Wrap means mink) and rap means knock it, (Rod means wand), and rod means gat, (Broke means crack), and broke means hack it, [But love means love and you can't change that.] Love means love and I love you, (Yes, I love you and ) [I mean what I say and I mean what I mean to say,]
[Love means love and I love you,] I love you baby, (gee that's swell,) (I love you baby,) oh you're so nice, [Say you love me too.]
Kissing your love is one of the most fun and beautiful things you can do. There's more than just the lips and cheeks, and kissing different parts of his or her body can mean different things. Here, we explain it all, what different kisses on different parts of your love means
Kiss on the hand means : FRIENDSHIP.
Kiss on the nose means : YOU'RE CUTE.
Kiss on the cheek means : I NEED YOU.
Kiss on the neck means : I WANT YOU.
Kiss on the lips means : I LOVE YOU.
Kissing with eyes closed means : I'M IN LOVE WITH YOU.
Kissing with eyes opened means : I'M WATCHING WHERE YOUR HANDS ARE GOING. The military Kiss means ..... "Keep It Simple Stupid".. Stolen Kisses ARE THE SWEETEST! (Always want to return it) Morale of the story is ... Its not WHO you are KissING but WHERE you're KissING that matters Other signs ..... Often thinking of you means : I CARE FOR YOU Holding hands means : I LIKE YOU Looking into the eyes means : DO YOU LOVE ME? Squeezing fingertips means : I WANT A Kiss Leaning on the shoulder means : COMFORT ME Getting occasional short hugs means : I MISS YOU Biting lips means : I AM JEALOUS Winking at you means : I WANT TO GO WITH YOU Playing with your hair means: I ADORE YOU
Stepping on toes means: I HATE YOU Getting hit in "very painful places" means : I REALLY HATE YOU Dreaming of you at night : YOU'RE SOMEONE SPECIAL
Always being with you means : I CAN'T LIVE WITHOUT YOU Wearing his or her ring means: YOU'RE MINE FOREVER Often giving you something means : CARE FOR YOU VERY MUCH f you love someone, you should let them know. And there’s no better way than to send them some flowers. It could be the boy or girl that you like, even your boyfriend or girlfriend. A husband, wife, father, mother. Anyone. Send them some flowers. It could be some beautiful wildflowers that you pass by as you’re walking today, fresh roses or tulips from the florist at the corner, even an expensive bouquet from that flashy online florist. How much it costs doesn’t matter, cos it’s the thought that counts. That romantic kiss from “Romeo and Juliet” Never forgetting my first kiss, Well I’m fourteen now but I was thirteen when I had my first kiss. I had just started going out with the guy I had a crush on for soooooo long…Bryce Levitt. He was the love of my life, I know that may sound and callow me being so young and claiming that, but then he was. Anyhow he and I had gone to the movies held hands, hugged, cuddled, but not kissed. Everyone was constantly telling us to, and believe me I really really wanted to. I always,
dreamt of him kissing me in the moon light. r see you again. But then again, my love, if I don't you will always be in my soul and forever in
True love is posted in so many ways that some people get confused about what true love is. But yet every one has there own opinion about what they feel true love is. You can sit there and say oh my god I love chocolate but does that mean you love chocolate like you would love your mother or father and does this mean that when you love your mother or father it’s the same as loving your boyfriend/girlfriend or even your husband?
Love is put out there in so many ways. You can love your favorite toy, or your favorite book, or even your favorite food but when you love a person it changes completely. Some people find true love in how the person looks, sometimes true love is found in how much money that person holds in there wallet, and sometimes true love is so blind that your heart leads you towards them and not your mind.
But what does true love mean to me? True love is a state of being it’s a feeling that you feel towards a person that has been there for you every second that you needed them. True love is how a person is towards you and how they act around you. You may say you love some one truly but would you love that person if they disrespected you? Or if they never showed care for you? I don’t think so because true love comes in how that one person is towards you. When a person respects you, when a person loves u as much as you love them or maybe even more, or when that person cares for you like a mother would care for her sick baby. That’s when believe true love comes in when a person is like this towards you I know that it would be true love right away and that person would be your soul mate. So I wanted to post this to see what other people think true love is. Because truly you cant just take one persons definition because every one has a heart and a mind that thinks differently
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I love my classmate to death and i have a feeling that he loves me too.
I always spot him looking at me and smiling in a lovely way, but he haven't told me yet if he loves me or not. I'm sure he knows that i love him.
What can i do to have him and to be with him? Because of our culture i cant tell him directly that i love him, but he is always on my mind.
What should i do to have love relation with him???
You don't have to do anything to be with this guy.
Just be yourself, hang out with him when there's a chance and things will come naturally.
Don't concentrate on wanting to be in a love relationship with him, just take it slow and be friends with him. If there's a future for the both of you, love will come on the way and it will bloom without having to put too much of an effort.
Take things easy and enjoy your time with him. Don't worry too much about 'love'.
I totaly agree with waleg`s answer!
just be yourself and if he does love you, he will accept you for who you are.
this may help you later on, DO NOT change for a guy.
i think we have the same culture that you cant tell the guy that you love him.
so just wait until he tells you that he loves you if he really does.
he loves u a lot...but wont tell u becoz he dont want 2 hurt ur feelings...after a long time u will go wont see him 4 long...suddenly he finds but u wont feel the love which u had...u ignores him...he feels pain...but u wont feel the pain which he feels...as he has been thinking of u every day ...as before....u will hav a lot of friends...u will never need his love...but he will continue 2 love u...till the end...but u will say it as "school age craziness" and "stupid things"...THIS IS WHAT HAS HAPPENED TO ME ...AND IS STILL CONTINUING...y i tell u this is becoz its a PAINFUL situation and its hard to go thru it...and i dont want him 2 be put to the same pain...TRY TO BE GOOD TO HIM...JUST SMILE AT HIM...LOVE WILL GROW ON ITS OWN..plizzzz
a guy he is really great person and nice
but ihave two problem i don't know that he loves me and he is christian and iam muslim so wat can ido to be with him?
i know how you feel. i love someone he is my race. and everything. but you see i met mhims online and he is the sweetest person. and i seen his face. and i talked to him on the phone but i know my parents dont want me woith him because he is egyptian and i am palestinian. only my parents want me to be twith someone from palestine,maybe you should just get a freiend or someone to ask him out for you ?
Love From The Heart .I fly like a bird,to be where you are,to spend just an evening in your place afar.
Beautiful music and exquisite wine -never has love beenquite so divine!But soon I must leave so kiss me farewell,the last dance is overas love stories tell.'ll never forget the magic of you,as I'm flying back homeOH! are you coming too?
Beautiful romance it's love on the wing,never has true love made my heart and soul